milkyhighway: I might have misunderstood, but I've written this list omitting VNs since I got the impression you were looking for titles with gameplay, correct? (If you want VNs too, I can write up a list of those later)
My top recommends:
Abaddon: Princess of the Decay A bisexual's paradise, this thing has all sorts of pairing configurations: MxF, FxF, MxM, 3P. (You can turn the MxM scenes off in settings if that's not for you)
Great characters and story, great horror, no stupid jumpscares (as far as I've played), drip feeds you disturbing lore. Heavily inspired by the old Famicom game "Sweet Home"
Very gameplay and story focused. There is a lot of H content but it will take a while to get to it, and requires a *lot* of replaying to get it all. Also, you can choose for the H content to be in HD illustrations, or pixel art to match the rest of the game.
Heart of Darkness One of the most polished titles published by Kagura. Does very well to capture the dark, decaying, and depressing vibe of the Dark Souls games (if it wasn't obvious, the DS series heavily inspired this one). Interesting story that isn't spelled out for you, instead you piece it together as you play, if you pay attention.
More focused on gameplay, has limited H content. Also, H content is divided into plot and non-plot scenes. The non-plot scenes are soft/sweet/kinky, easily accessible, and involve the main character. The plot scenes deal with dark themes, are avoidable (unless you're trying to discover all lore), and involve only side characters.
Magical Girl Celesphonia You said you already know this one, but I'm listing it for others who don't know it yet.
Great freedom of choice, and having your RPG character develop in a way that reflects the choices you made.
Lots of H content, doesn't take long to get to it and it's easily accessed. Some rough themes in its H content if you fail/lose/make a bad choice.
If you like it, you should know the developer's next game has been picked up by Kagura Games for an English release.
And the dev's first game, Ambrosia, is already translated (it's here on GOG too). I haven't played it yet but hear it's like an unpolished version of Celesphonia.
Succumate It's very short but the life sim aspect was fun. It's got an interesting story too, with some unexpected twists at the end.
Plenty of H content and easily accessed. All content is consenual, but there is one heroine which involves stealing her from her partner.
Cool! See, I'm glad I made this post. I just tried playing Being aD IK, recommended here, and I loved it, so I'm sure I'll enjoy Heart of Darkness too.